Month: December 2019

Christmas From a Non-Religious Family’s Point of View

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Welcome back everyone!

As part of my quest to find unique post ideas relating to Christmas and the holidays, today I will be discussing how my Christmas celebration/experience differs since my family is not religious. Christmas is still a tradition in our house because both my parents were raised fairly Christian and celebrated it, but neither of my parents really stuck to a religion when they were older. I’ve never been to church in my life, and I don’t celebrate the religious aspect of Christmas.

In my family, Christmas is mainly about celebrating the spirit of giving and being generous towards others. My dad is in our local Rotary club, and he gets assigned four kids to buy Christmas gifts for every year. I also usually donate to my school’s Toys for Tots drive, and volunteer gift wrapping gifts at Barnes and Noble through my charity group. I put a lot of effort into making/finding the perfect gifts for my friends, teachers, and family, and I get excited to help my mom decorate the house for Christmas.

People always say that Christmas is about celebrating Jesus and not the gifts- I definitely agree that it’s not all about the gifts, but I don’t think you need to be very religious to take part in celebrating Christmas and its other typical traditions. All of the things I love about Christmas don’t really have to do with its religious roots- I think anyone can understand the importance of giving and celebrate.

I hope no one takes offense to this- I would actually like to go to church on Christmas one day and experience that aspect of the holiday as well. I have a few other Christmas post ideas that will be up soon, so keep an eye out!

-Brooke

5 Reasons to Shop Local

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Welcome back everyone!

I’ve been posting a lot about gift guides, Christmas, and shopping lately, mainly mentioning things you can buy online or in well-known chain stores. This is mainly for your convenience, since mentioning a local shop in my town doesn’t offer much help for you guys looking for gifts; however, don’t mistake this for me ignoring my local shopping options. Today, I’m going to be giving you five reasons why you should shop locally, and why I try to as much as possible.

  1. You’ll find more unique items – Shopping at the same five stores in the mall as everyone else results in always having the same stuff as everyone else. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, but sometimes you want to get something special that no one else will have, especially for a gift. Going into little boutiques where the inventory changes often and there’s a wide variety of things for sale increases your chances of finding something unique.
  2. It can be a better deal – Chain stores can completely overcharge for their products because they know people will buy it. At local shops, the prices are often cheaper, but you’re not sacrificing quality for a deal.
  3. You can establish personal relationships with the employees – There’s a boutique in my town that I go to fairly often and the employees are always so kind and try to make shopping a personal experience. They’ll pick out things for you to try on that they think would look good on you, and they’ll let you know what the best deals are.
  4. It’s often more sustainable – Ordering lots of items online results in a lot of plastic wrap and other waste related to packaging being shipped to your door, only to be thrown away right afterwards. If you shop in local stores with possibly handmade products, there’s usually a lot less waste involved.
  5. Chain stores and online marketplaces are killing brick-and-mortar businesses – My mall used to have tons of cute and unique stores- now it’s fairly empty and only has a few huge chains like Victoria’s Secret, Macy’s, PacSun, etc. This goes for restaurants too! It’s important to

I hope this inspired you to do some of your holiday shopping at your local boutiques or even craft/artisan fairs. There’s always some new brand or artist waiting to be discovered, and you could be the one to discover it! Happy shopping 🙂

-Brooke

Why the Holiday Season Isn’t Always So Jolly

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Hello everyone!

I know my last two posts have been centered around the holidays and gift-giving, but today I want to discuss the holiday season in a different way. For many people, Christmas/the holidays are actually a very sad and lonely time. My family’s gone through a lot in the past few years, so I’ve seen Christmas from this perspective as well. My grandma who lived ten minutes away from me and was super close to everyone in my family passed away in 2017, and the holidays haven’t been the same since. In addition, we’ve drifted away from cousins on my dad’s side of the family for various reasons, distance being one of them.

I have memories of our house being full, having a huge fake tree, and setting up multiple tables so everyone could fit at Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners when I was really little. Once I got a little older, the celebration shrunk, but we still kept a lot of the same traditions; we did a family craft night on Christmas Eve, watched Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer and sipped hot cocoa, and woke up wayyyy too early to open gifts and have pancakes for breakfast.

In the past few years though, the holidays haven’t felt very celebratory at all. I still get excited to decorate the tree, buy gifts for people, and participate in winter activities like ice skating and Secret Santa gift exchanges with friends, but when it comes to the actual holidays itself, things often fall short of how I remember them to be. Last Christmas, I remember opening my gifts and thanking my parents, but going up to my room after to cry. It just felt so lonely, having only my mom, my dad, and my brother there. I don’t feel lonely on any other day with just our small family, but during the holidays when it’s expected to spend time with family and I see my friends with their huge family parties filled with relatives they don’t even know, my celebration seems meek and sad in comparison.

Again, it’s not about the gifts or anything my parents are doing wrong. I am so grateful for all the family members that think to send me gifts and the time my parents spend picking out gifts they think I’ll like; however, this doesn’t replace the gaping hole left behind by my grandma’s absence. My grandma’s not the only person we used to celebrate with that we don’t spend Christmas with anymore, but she’s the person I miss the most.

Regardless, if you feel lonely this Christmas or anytime during the holiday season, just know you’re not alone. This time isn’t the “most wonderful time of the year” for everyone, and that’s okay. Don’t get yourself too down- still try to enjoy the wintry magic the holidays have to offer, but forget about comparing your holiday experience to others, and just remember what this time of year is all about. Spend time with the people you care about that are around, participate in the spirit of giving if you’re able, and be thankful you’re alive to experience another holiday season.

I sincerely apologize if any of this sounded preachy, but I don’t know how else to word my thoughts. For the past couple years, I’ve cried in my room after every major holiday. It just feels weird to grow up and not feel the ~magic~ anymore, in addition to time flying by and it not even feeling like the holidays are actually here. That being said, I hope you all have the best holiday season ever. Remember, you’re never alone.

-Brooke

What I’m Giving For Christmas This Year

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Welcome back everyone!

Christmas is less than two weeks away, and I have been busy getting gifts for my family and friends. I figured this would be a cool post idea to give some more gift inspiration while also doing something new. In my friend group, we do a Secret Santa every year, and another club I’m in (shoutout to Youth and Government) is doing a gift exchange as well. If you want to find out what I got for my two Secret Santas, my teachers, and everyone else, keep on reading!

  • To my Youth and Government people: It’s kind of like a White Elephant exchange, so I just got a $20 In N Out gift card. Before you say, “Lame!”, don’t worry: there’s some meaning behind it. After all of our meetings, a good chunk of our members go to In N Out and continue the fun there; hopefully it will be a hit.
  • To one of my best friends/ my friend group’s Secret Santa: My friend is about to turn 16, so I got her a “Minimergency Kit” at Francesca’s that she can keep in her car. I put the kit, as well as a car air freshener, a set of bamboo utensils (she’s very ecofriendly as well) with some mints and snacks to keep in her car.
  • To one of my friends whose birthday is coming up: I got her a birthday candle from birthdatecandles.com, a book about her astrology sign, and a Lidstar eyeshadow from Glossier- she loves astrology and sparkles.
  • To my friend hosting the Secret Santa: I got her a set from Glossier that includes mascara, eyeliner, and makeup remover. I also threw in a festive holiday-scented lotion (apple cinnamon, yum!). I wanted to get her something anyways, so it was a nice thing to do.
  • To my neighbors: My neighbors have the cutest little kids, so my mom and I picked out a couple kids’ books to give to them.
  • To my teachers: I gave five of my teachers little boxes of See’s Candies, and my yearbook teacher a candle and lotion set from Trader Joe’s.
  • To my mom, dad, and brother: I don’t want to spoil it yet, in case they read this 🙂 Most likely something homemade!

Technically, this isn’t everyone I’m giving gifts too. My mom picks out gifts for my grandparents, cousins, and such and puts my name on the card/tag as well. I’m happy I got to pick out some gifts and I hope all of the recipients like them. Even though this time of year can be stressful with the long shopping lists and packed stores, there’s nothing better than searching for the perfect gift and seeing the recipient’s face light up when they open it. Happy gifting!

-Brooke

Gift Ideas Under $20 to Up Your Secret Santa Game – For Her

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Welcome back everyone!

If you were frantically searching the internet for ideas on what to get for a Secret Santa gift exchange, you’ve found the right place. I know the price limit on a gift exchange always seems daunting- you’re glad it’s not too pricey, but how are you supposed to get a great gift that the person will love for such a small sum? Here you have it- the best and most clever gifts that won’t break the bank.

For her:

  • Fuzzy socks – Old Navy has really cheap fuzzy socks, but Target and Nordstrom Rack also have a lot of cute ones.
  • Candles!! Target has affordable candles that are still really good- Homegoods is another place to look for various different brands. I absolutely love Anthropologie’s candles, but the full size ones are over $20- you can get a mini size for cheaper though!
  • Victoria’s Secret/VS PINK body products – Their body sprays and lotions are always on sale, and sometimes they have gift sets that are an even better deal.
  • Gift cards – Before you groan and say, ‘That’s so basic!”, think about going a little bit outside of the box. Instead of getting a gift card to her favorite clothing store, get her gift cards she can use at her favorite fast food places, favorite restaurants, favorite boutiques, the movies, or to important/useful services like Uber and grocery store gift cards. The possibilities are endless depending on what she likes!
  • Fuzzy blanket – Everyone loves a good throw blanket! I received a fluffy blanket last year in a Secret Santa; I believe you can find them on Amazon or stores like Marshalls and Homegoods for under or around $20.
  • Candy/snacks – If all else fails, everyone has a favorite food or snack. Fill up a gift bag with tons of sweets and they’re bound to love it- bonus points for being homemade!
  • A nice stationary set – For the girls with perfect notes, they would love a new notebook or set of pens. The Zebra midliners and Muji pens are really popular at my school right now, and you can get them on Amazon or your local stationary store.
  • Bath bombs – LUSH has my favorite scents, but you can get them pretty much anywhere- Target has even cheaper ones and they’re still just as good. I just find the LUSH ones look the prettiest.
  • A care package – If you get the items on the cheaper side, you can put together a cute package of lots of the items I’ve already listed. Go to Target and get a combination of candy, face masks, bath bombs, and fuzzy socks, and almost any girl will be happy.
  • Portable charger – If she already has a portable charger, you can get a wireless charger for them to use at home. For a girl on the go, or the girl constantly on her phone, this can be a real lifesaver. If I know I’m going to be out for the whole day, I never leave without mine.
  • Framed picture of the two of you – If you want to get creative, you could also make a collage or it could be a Polaroid picture in one of those cute Polaroid frames from Urban Outfitters. It’s a sentimental gift they’ll appreciate, and it doubles as cute room decor.
  • Beanie or some sort of hat – It’s winter and it’s cold; beanies have been trendy lately, and you can find them in any store. If they already wear and love beanies, get them a fun color you know they wouldn’t have.
  • Scrunchies – The ultimate VSCO girl trend, but also a practical gift for all. There are packs on Amazon that are super cheap and have every style imaginable- if you want to go for the best quality, get Urban Outfitters or Lululemon, but they’re much more expensive.
  • Stickers from Redbubble – There are SO many cute stickers on this website; I asked for some for my Hydro Flask this year. You can put them on your laptop, your water bottle, your notebooks, or anything you desire. The point is, there’s tons of options and it’s super customizable.
  • Astrology related gifts – If they believe in astrology, get them something related to their zodiac sign. Whether it’s a necklace, a book about their sign, or some room decor, this is a cute gift and something they probably don’t have.
  • Glossier products – This is perfect for the girl who loves makeup, or wants to get into it. I have their balm.com chapstick in multiple flavors and absolutely LOVE it. Their most-talked-about products are the Boy Brow, Balm.com, Milky Jelly Cleanser, and Cloud Paint blush. Based on what her style is, choose the product you think she’ll use most.

I hope this guide helps you find the perfect gift for your Secret Santa. It’s crazy to think December’s almost over and we’ll soon be ringing in the new year. Enjoy the holiday season while it lasts, and have so much fun getting into the spirit of giving. I have a few more holiday posts coming soon!

-Brooke

5 Candles That Would Make Great Holiday Gifts

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Hello everyone!

Today I have a mini gift guide for you all, focusing around one of my favorite things in the world: candles. There’s nothing better than lighting a candle on a cold winter day and curling up with a good book as you smell the scent wafting to the corners of your room. Candles are great all year-round, but I find I mainly light them in the wintertime. Here are five of my favorites that would make great gifts for the holidays.

  • Himalayan Homemade Candles – Primrose Hill: This is a great candle for all seasons, and the presentation of it is beautiful, so you can leave it out on a table for decoration. It smells like a breath of fresh air, but it’s not too strong of a scent.
  • Bath and Body Works – Fresh Balsam: This smells exactly like a Christmas tree, so it’s perfect for someone who has a fake tree but still wants the smell of a real one. I absolutely love the fresh smell, and I think it smells super authentic.
  • Bath and Body Works – Twisted Peppermint: A classic B&BW favorite, I also love this candle. I love the smell of peppermint, and this one reminds me of when I used to drench myself in the matching body spray and lotion. Ah, those were the days.
  • Yankee Candle – All is Bright: My mom introduced me to this candle somehow, and I absolutely love it. I can’t even describe what it smells like; it’s just a mild holiday scent that everyone can enjoy. My mom is very sensitive to smells and gets headaches easily, so that’s why all of these scents are mild.
  • Bath and Body Works – Winter Candy Apple: Another holiday favorite from B&BW. I really like all their renditions on apple scents, but this one is the most Christmassy. I think it’s also a fairly mild scent, if that’s what you’re looking for.

If you’re in the market for a new holiday candle, I hope this helped. All of these would make great gifts- you can even put them on your Christmas list!

-Brooke

10 Things to Watch on Disney+ Right Now

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Hello everyone!

Since I have a Verizon unlimited data plan, I get Disney+ free for a year. I have already binge watched so many of my old favorite shows, and there’s such a great selection that it’s hard to decide what to watch. If you’re curious if Disney+ is worth paying for, or you have it and are having trouble deciding what to watch first, here are 10 ideas for you. Keep in mind that I still have the mind of a child and love a throwback to my childhood, so most of these may seem a little cheesy or childish to someone more mature.

  1. High School Musical: The Musical: The Series – This is the new show related to High School Musical, a series that attempts to be more realistic, showcasing a high school production of High School Musical. Trying to explain it’s confusing, but I think you’ll get it once you watch it. I love the original movies still, so this was the first thing I went to watch when I logged into Disney+ for the first time.
  2. Phineas and Ferb – I feel like everyone can enjoy this show. My parents used to put it on and watch it with me on Saturday mornings. Just hearing the theme song makes me so nostalgic, and it’s a nice show to have on in the background.
  3. Home Alone – A Christmas classic, enough said.
  4. Wizards of Waverly Place – This was always my favorite Disney Channel show. Actually, it’s too hard to pick a favorite. Regardless, I still wish I was a wizard…
  5. Gravity Falls – As I write this, Gravity Falls is playing on my TV. I never finished it while it was actually playing, but this show was actually a really interesting and creepy show for a Disney Channel show. I plan on actually finishing it out this time.
  6. Good Luck Charlie: It’s Christmas – I know most people don’t really like these types of Disney Channel Original movies, but for some reason, I love this one. I watch it every Christmas Eve with my family members that don’t really enjoy it as much as I do, and it always puts me in a good mood because it showcases what the holidays are really about.
  7. The Simpsons – I don’t watch this show that often, but I’ve seen it from time to time. I know that it has its own cult following though, so I think it’s cool they have the whole show on Disney+.
  8. Starstruck – This is my favorite Disney Channel original movie that’s not tied to a TV show or anything. The songs are catchy, the love story is what I’ve always dreamed would happen to me living in Southern California. Still looking for my Christopher Wilde.
  9. The Suite Life of Zack and Cody – I will always wish I grew up in a fancy hotel or on a boat because of the antics in these shows. This is definitely on my rewatch list.
  10. The Nightmare Before Christmas – Another holiday classic, enough said.

You can watch all these things and more with Disney+! In my opinion, it’s definitely worth the price for all these classics you can’t stream other places. I recommend asking for it for Christmas 😉

-Brooke

Places I Want to Go in 2020

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Hello everyone!


After I wrote my post about all the places I’d been in 2019 (which you should go check out if you haven’t already), it got me thinking about where I hope to travel to this upcoming year. I traveled more than I ever have this year, so I feel like listing a whole bunch of places would be unrealistic- this list will be fairly short, and will pretty much only include places within the country. That’s why the post is listed “Places I Want to Go in 2020”, rather than just “Places I Want to Go” in general. Regardless, I hope you enjoy hearing about my longing for adventures.

  • New York, NY – I’ve been to upstate New York to visit family when I was 7, but we didn’t go to the city at all when I was there. I’ve wanted to visit New York so badly since watching Gossip Girl, and Columbia University has been one of my dream schools since I was little. There’s just so much to see there and it seems like it’s a city unlike any other, so I want to visit and experience it all (as well as tour Columbia!).
  • San Luis Obispo, CA – This is a much more local trip, but I’ve never really been anywhere in central or northern California. I’d like to visit Cal Poly SLO just to see what it’s like since I know it’s a good school, and it’s always fun to visit a beach town.
  • San Fransisco, CA – Similar to SLO, it’s a more local trip, but I’ve never been to San Fransisco. I find that funny since I’ve lived in California my whole life and it’s such a well-known city, so I really want to go and see what Northern California is like. There’s also a ton of schools to visit there like UC Berkeley and Stanford, so that’s an excuse to go. I think I want to go out-of-state for college, but SF is far enough that who knows- it may be a completely different vibe that I love. It also looks like such a beautiful city.
  • Chicago, IL – Another city to visit under the guise of college tours! I want to go see Northwestern and UChicago, and I really love cities, but I haven’t been to most of the big ones. I think this would be a cool trip, and my mom always says Chicago is her favorite city she’s been to.
  • Ann Arbor, MI – Michigan looks absolutely beautiful and I would love to see Lake Michigan and all the different parts. The reason I listed Ann Arbor is because that’s where the University of Michigan is, and I would love to go visit. It’s supposed to be beautiful there, and I would probably go in the same trip as Chicago since they’re relatively close.
  • Boston, MA – If I went to Boston, it would probably be part of a whole East Coast college tour. There’s so many colleges to look at in Boston, and all my friends who have been said it’s such a fun city. I’d like to go just to visit, but I would obviously want to tour the colleges there as well.
  • Washington D.C. – I went to D.C. for a school trip in eighth grade and fell in love. My dad has never been and I don’t think my brother plans on going on the school trip like I did, so we might do a family trip. I would also love to tour Georgetown and other schools in the area.
  • Maui or Oahu, HI – My grandparents live on the Big Island of Hawaii, but I’ve never been to the more “touristy” islands like Maui or Oahu. This is a pretty unrealistic trip since if I ended up going to Hawaii for whatever reason I would probably go visit and stay with my grandparents, but I figured I’d throw it out there since pretty much all of the other places on this list are more urban/cities.
  • East Coast trip in general – A couple of the places I listed are on the East Coast; I think I want to go to school on the East Coast, so I want to do a college tour trip where I can get a feel for all the main cities, and tour a lot of colleges. Some other notable places I would love to visit are some of the Ivies like Yale (Connecticut) and Brown (Rhode Island), and smaller liberal arts colleges.

I have no clue if any of these trips will end up happening; I suspect I’ll at least be able to go to SLO and San Fransisco, but I have no clue about anything else. I want to go do a summer program, so that may lead to a trip somewhere else in the country. Either way, I’m sure 2020 will lead to some amazing adventures, and I would love to hear where you want to go!

-Brooke

5 Steps to Succeed in Finals Week

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Hello everyone!

I know finals week is coming up for everyone either this week (hopefully this post isn’t too late) or next week, so this post is going to be a short and sweet one for you guys to read and get on your way studying. My school does finals in January after winter break, but these couple weeks of December are so packed with work and tests that it’s basically pre-finals. Either way, this a busy time for pretty much everyone, and the stress can negatively impact the most put-together of students. Today I have five tips for success in finals week, hopefully with the least amount of stress possible.

  1. Pace yourself – Ideally, your finals will be spread out throughout the week (my school does block schedule so we only have two classes a day). If this is the case, place most of your focus on whatever’s coming up first. The only exception would be if there’s one class you’re really struggling in or need to bring your grade up in- then you should put that final first no matter what, and spend the most time on studying for it. Other than that, take it one final at a time and study accordingly. It minimizes a ton of stress if you’re only thinking about one big test, rather than anywhere from four to six.
  2. If your teacher doesn’t give you a study guide, make one – I find this is one of the best ways to study if you’re not sure what to do and you don’t want to passively look over your notes. Some teachers give study guides, which is excellent because it’s straightforward to study for those finals- you just complete the study in detail, then go over it and quiz yourself/have other people quiz you. However, if your teacher doesn’t provide one, you should definitely still make your own! Go through all the units and write down key concepts and their definitions/explanations, and do tons of practice problems for math and science subjects.
  3. Have a balance of studying alone and group studying – Studying alone shut up in your house will drive you stir-crazy and you may lose focus, but sometimes studying in a group can get you off-topic. The answer? A balance of both: review the material on your own and make your study guide so you’re familiar with the basis of everything, then go study in a group and quiz each other, asking questions about things you’re confused on.
  4. Focus on school – Finals week is only one week, and it’s super important for your grades. Therefore, it should take priority over other things like extracurriculars for the week. Obviously honor any important commitments like work or sports practice, but it’s fine to let other things slide for a few days.
  5. Go see your teachers for extra help – This is a good idea for two reasons. One, if you need the help, it’s so important to ask for it. Your teachers should be happy to clear up any confusion you have and go through some review with you if you come in with specific questions. Two, they’ll often give you some insight and subtle hint as to what will be on the final. Whenever I’ve gone in to ask a teacher for help, he or she will point out what I really need to know.

Good luck on your finals everyone! Remember there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, and this will all be over in a flash. I have faith all of you will do great, especially if you utilize these tips.

-Brooke

5 Ways to Make Reading Fun (for Book-Haters)

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Welcome back everyone!

I talk about this a lot, but I love to read. I can’t imagine my childhood without the hundreds of books I pored over, and weekly trips to the library. I’m really lucky that my parents introduced me to reading so young and encouraged me to keep reading and find books I loved. However, I know that not everyone is lucky enough to grow up the same way, or even if they are, not everyone ends up liking reading as they get older.

Reading is so beneficial even if you’re not a book-nerd; it helps you grow your vocabulary, it provides an escape from the outside world, and books will always teach you something new. If you’re one of those people who dreads required reading for school or can never follow a plot line: never fear, here are five ways you can make reading more enjoyable.

  1. Try nonfiction – I know nonfiction sounds boring at first; there’s no creative fantasy worlds being carefully crafted by the authors, that’s for sure. However, in a lot of cases, people who don’t like reading fiction can find nonfiction books specifically catered to their interests. For example, read a book written by your favorite celebrity, or read a self-help book related to something you’ve been struggling with. There’s a book for everyone out there, and nonfiction books catered to your interests are often easier to find than that of fiction.
  2. Find your niche/genre – Similar to how trying nonfiction can open you up to a world of books you enjoy, exploring different genres can completely change your perspective on the reading experience. Maybe you hate fantasy novels, but you’d really like murder mysteries, or vice versa. Think of what TV shows/movies you enjoy watching, and try to find something comparable in book form.
  3. Look for storylines or plot elements you can relate to – I always found I loved stories that brought in elements of relatability. This is why I tend to gravitate towards realistic fiction when I need something new to read. I think when people can relate to the main character or something about the main character’s life, they’re so much more invested in the story and can often connect with the overarching message of the book.
  4. Join a book club or create a discussion group with friends – If your friends are up for it, this is a great way to get more immersed into books. You’ll have a reason to keep reading on a timeline, and you can get some insight on why other people with different perspectives are enjoying the book. A shift in perspective can be just what you need to start enjoying reading!
  5. Read to learn – This is a more vague tip, but it honestly has helped me so much. This works more for required reading where you can’t choose what the book is, but you can use this outlook on whatever you read. Look at everything you read as an opportunity to gain insight on the world and learn something new- whether it’s a vocab word, something about history, or something specific to the themes and topic of the text. You’ll begin to enjoy the consumption of all this new information.

I hope this inspires you guys to get out there and read something new. If you happened to stumble across this post even though you do, in fact, enjoy reading, then I would love for you to leave some book recommendations down below. I plan to be doing some more book reviews and book-related content soon.

-Brooke